If You Give a Mouse a Cookie

If You Give A Mouse A Cookie just about sums it up! Children’s books from beginner readers to young adult fiction should really be read by adults! If you enjoy one cookie, isn’t it human nature to want more? Or even a glass of milk to go with the cookie.? Well I’ve been enjoying the cookie and sure would like another! And I know the milk is coming as well.


Our lives are like a cookie recipe. We are a collection of our experiences or ingredients, right?" They get stirred together and blended like this oatmeal, coconut & raisin cookie, so the individual ingredients or experiences might be hard to decipher, but you know when it tastes delicious! I’ve seen the cookie display at Organico Market every year and this year thought, “Bucket List” item and enjoyed it as my lunch walking home. Oats, raisins, coconut and probably eggs reminds me of the comedy skit “Chocolate Cake for Breakfast”.

I digress so let’s get back to my point. I shared in my previous musings about Golf Carts some of the things I love about being in Playa Guiones, Nosara, Costa Rica. We’re soon to be concluding our second week and I’ve settled into a pattern (can’t call it a routine because days are similar without being the same). Being in our AirBnB is a return to childhood and what must be in my DNA. It’s hot as I write and Scott is working shirtless. Our doors and windows are open and I’m “glowing” in my yoga clothes after taking a class. We have AC, but only in the bedroom. There are occasional ants on the bathroom floor and sometimes in the kitchen. I can hear birds and howler monkeys and am surrounded by the jungle green.

My summers as a child were spent in what we now call, “The Old Edge Hill”, a dining hall converted to a cottage overlooking the Severn River in Sherwood Forest. It’s the “Old” because before the structure bit the dust, my mother tore it down to build her lovely home. My mother was raised here as a child as was I and my 3 kids. It was hot. It was buggy at times. It was perfect and the first ingredient in my “cookie” much like our spot in Nosara.

our porch view where I read, do yoga, write & work on retreat logistics)

Being in our Air BnB without the amenities of home feels natural to me. The second ingredient in my “cookie” would be the ocean. I wrote in my Storyworth book #1 about the best day I remember . It wasn’t about one day, but the days spent at the ocean (again in my DNA from childhood). Here at Playa Guiones I go around the corner to the beach several times everyday. Ocean morning beach walks where my mind can ramble & process, afternoon dips with Scott and evening sunsets where I can pause and be thankful for another perfect day here cannot be matched.

My Nosara Cookie Recipe becomes complete when I add in yoga. I’ve been practicing 32+ years and discover more about it every year. Nosara is a town for Surfing and Yoga. Our Air BnB host a 60+ surfer, Patrick, said one year, “I wonder about the people who come here and they don’t surf or do yoga” in a suspicious tone. There are classes to walk to from my front door that are 5 to 25 minutes away. In the past 11 days I’ve taken yoga classes from a restorative flow to yin to vinyasa from teachers who “teach asana”, meaning they are strong in cueing a pose without interjecting a lot of yoga speak fluff. My kind of yoga! As a teacher some of the best teaching (and translates into life advice too) advice I’ve received was Roger Cole in a workshop training quoting his mentor/teacher, BKS Iyengar, “just teach asana & let the rest show up for the student”. I get that here as a student.

The Baltimore yoga scene got wonky after 2020 with studios closing. There’s a beautiful new studio that I could walk to or drive 5 minutes, but it’s primarily hot yoga. My style is to make a muscle (create heat), so the opposing muscle will release. I want to do the work to build heat and not sweat because of an excessively hot environment. There’s another studio that is close, but teachers started “sharing” more ideas than cueing yoga, so that wasn’t a good fit after I tried (really tried hard to ignore) for 4-6 months.

Despite not finding a place to be a yoga student, I love my life in Baltimore. Our home backs to a nature trail and I can walk to our community pool on summer days or to The Cathedral of Mary Our Queen to sit in the Mary Chapel to meditate, pray, or just be with the smells and feelings I remember from childhood. I can walk to Eddie’s if I need a grocery item, the post office, or bank. There are also several restaurants and our dear friends, Mac & Kim, are around the corner for a winter evening by their fire or to borrow something from Kim’s well equipped kitchen.

And still I want just one more “cookie” in Nosara. I want to walk the beach and be with my morning thoughts and take a yoga class at any time of day with a full menu of styles from well trained teachers. And as the story goes, there is MILK. It’s being served up next week as we shift gears and move to Bodhi Tree Yoga Resort for my annual yoga retreat. We will be enjoying high thread count sheets, spa cuisine and the most lovely yoga shalas (studios). So next week is not just milk, but cold, full fat, organic, raw MILK! As much as I love to practice yoga, I love to teach and here on retreats is my absolute favorite. Every year we have the most lovely group. Many return or take a year off and come back, and there are always those new who join! The body is an amazing gift and sharing how to stay healthy, well and fit is what I love to share. There will also be sunsets and time to take a yoga class or two. So if you give a mouse a cookie she’s going to ask for a glass of milk. I’m blessed and grateful for it all - to be in my jungle AirBnB and the experience of sharing yoga with the retreat group at Bodhi. But as I said, it is human nature when you love where you are to want more. Just one more week…its been the best!

P.S. and thankful Scott puts up with the challenges of working remote in the jungle. Internet goes out and calls aren’t as easy.

Beth Graham

www.bethgrahamwellness.com




I've Been Busy!

I’ve been adding a lot of YouTube “shorts” & videos so you can squeeze in 3 to 5 minutes of movement throughout your day!

If you want a full yoga flow in 5 minutes with a cardio challenge try this

Or this for back/neck pain, so your spine is aligned

And something NEW - Couch Yoga!

There are several YouTube “Shorts” that are less than 3 minutes and focus on leg strength, hip mobility and I’ll be adding some Shoulder videos soon. SUBSCRIBE.

I enjoy sharing what I’m working on. If you have any questions always feel free to email and I’ll post a video for you!

Wishing you the best for 2026 and that you enjoy all of your gifts this season.

Beth Graham

www.bethgrahamwellness.com

Azores Retreat - Reserve Now!

Our LONG awaited Azores Retreat is finally going to happen. After the initial disappointment of cancelling in 2020 we’ve had so many gifts including 3 kids weddings and our first grandchild. So now we’re ready for the AZORES and Santa Barbara is even better than it was in 2020. So good things come to those who wait, as they say!

If you’ve been with us to Bodhi Tree Yoga Resort in Costa Rica, this retreat will be much different. Yes we will still do yoga but the focus will also include hikes to THERMAL baths (yes…anything warm and healing after a hike is an experience to ENJOY!) and exploring the FOOD landscape in this farm to table environment.

I have several styles of rooms that are perfect for solo travelers, couples, or groups of friends (studios to multi-bedroom). Some have living spaces between bedrooms and all have an outdoor water feature like the thermal pool in the photo below or a private Jacuzzi.

Please see the website link for complete details: https://www.bethgrahamwellness.com/azores-retreat You can wet your whistle there.

4 dinners will be at the Santa Barbara Resort with Chef Vitor Sobral’s local selections & 2 dinners off property with one free night for you to explore or enjoy the resort. Santa Barbara on Instagram @santa_barbara_azores shares the seasonal food selections.

Some days will be two yoga classes (athletic alignment in the mornings and restorative/supine/slower moving in the evening. Other days will have one class to further relax after the hike to thermal baths. Timing will also be adjusted for the off property Food Experiences.

Save your space with a $800 deposit. Flights are on Azores Air from Boston and once you arrive get ready to experience these volcanic islands that are still a secret of the Atlantic!

https://www.bethgrahamwellness.com/azores-retreat

Costa Rica & Azores for your 2026 Travel!

Join us for the 7th Annual Nosara, Costa Rica Retreat February 14 - 21, 2026. Bodhi Tree Yoga Resort never disappoints and why so many return every year. It’s the perfect recharge for winter post-holiday and before spring arrives. This retreat always sells out and has a waiting list.

More information https://www.bethgrahamwellness.com/2026-costa-rica-retreat


After a few delays, weddings and birth of our first grandchild we are heading for THE AZORES! Join us October 1-8, 2026. If you have been with us in Costa Rica, this will be a different experience. Along with yoga we will be hiking to take in the natural treasures of these volcanic islands. Dinners will be both “on campus” and off. There’s been a lot of interest in this retreat and I’m thrilled the time has come to Experience the Azores. This will be a one time retreat destination only in 2026.

More information https://www.bethgrahamwellness.com/azores-retreat



Ditch the Box, Bag, & Window

I heard this “nutrition” tip recently and wish I could remember who said it to give credit! What a great mantra, “Ditch the Box, Bag & Window”. It’s been 30+ years since I’ve eaten food from a window (fast food) and we’ve not had much from a box or bag in our cupboard for years, but now I’m even more aware!

In purchasing food I’ve slowly moved from the grocery store with the occasional farmers market to my January 2024 Goal of buying most of our food from local farmers. This might sound like a dramatic shift, but looking back it was baby steps that began 35 years ago.

In the late 80s our food came from the local chain market Giant Foods. By the early 90s I began hearing buzz about organic food and moved to Fresh Fields that later became Whole Foods. I wish I could see my cart back then because it was probably loaded with plenty of boxes & bags But!!! ORGANIC!!! I had fallen prey to the marketing and didn’t connect the dots that most of these foods were processed (can be made in your kitchen like cookies) or highly processed (like puffed cheese curls that cannot be made in your kitchen) with the same amounts of sugar, fat & salt as conventional products to make them addictive.

Around 2014 I began coaching nutrition at a medical wellness center and on my 40 minute commute listened to health podcasts. When I heard an interview with Dan Buettner on The Blue Zones www.BlueZones.com I got excited. The concept of eating locally, connection to family & community, a spiritual practice and daily movement resonated with what I felt was the foundation of a healthy life.

I’m now 8 months into my “goal” and I’ll report that I’m not going back! I love the connection of supporting farmers & seeing where our food comes from. Meat has been easy to purchase with 3 local, grass fed, sustainable farmers (& one sells produce in it’s farm shop) that are convenient & also deliver, dairy (butter, kefir, milk, cheese, eggs etc.) is an easy weekly pick up in my neighborhood and produce in the summer is a no brainer. I know it won’t be as easy in the winter, but I have a solution for that - 3 weeks in the sunny Blue Zone, Nosara, Costa Rica! Two weeks in town and the third at Bodhi Tree Yoga Resort.

Many times in life what’s meant to be just shows up! In 2018 Scott & I were in Nosara, Costa Rica looking for a yoga retreat location https://bodhitreeyogaresort.com/event/simplify-connect-enjoy/ and Nosara just happens to be a Blue Zone! Bodhi Tree Yoga Resort & the Nosara community are the opportunity to re-boot food and lifestyle goals in the February when we all need a sunshine immune system boost as well.

Scott & I always travel to Nosara the week prior to the retreat to make final plans and scout out “what’s new” before the retreat group arrives. We enjoy beach sunsets followed by lovely restaurant dinners, so it’s a blend of vacation & preparation.

I’ve wanted is to live our Baltimore life in the Nosara Blue Zone and I’ve convinced Scott two weeks in town is necessary for this. With the additional time to enjoy I’ll walk to the farmers market on Tuesdays to buy the food for the week. There’s also a super mini with local meat, eggs, coffee and any other items to fill in the gaps. What I imagine is after enjoying the ocean sunset and a glass of wine we will walk back to our Air BnB and Scott will close out the day’s work remotely & I’ll make dinner with farm fresh ingredients. It will be much like our life in Baltimore. We will still have plenty of time to visit our favorite restaurants like La Brasa www.labrasaguiones.com, Olivia’s Guiones, and explore new options.

Then the gift of our third week when the retreat group arrives and we all experience the bounty of Bodhi Tree. Three meals a day that are beautifully prepared for all dietary needs with locally sourced food. Everything is made fresh with whole food ingredients. My years returning to Bodhi Tree have been a part of the inspiration of my 2024 goal. In so many ways the return to Nosara & Bodhi is always like a home coming.

Dig into the Blue Zones. And I’d also recommend The Weston A. Price Foundation www.westonaprice.org If you need tips on how to incorporate more real food into your day or need farmer resources (in Maryland) just ask! Send me an email (bethgraham1206@gmail.com) and I’m happy to share.

It’s always about how to simplify•connect•enjoy!






















What Judy had to say about our 2024 Bodhi Tree Yoga Resort Retreat

I attended Beth's Bodhi Tree Yoga retreat in 2024. I took a leap of faith, and reached out to her for a spot. I was so fortunate that a spot became available at the last minute. I did not know Beth or anyone else on the trip and went alone, which was a bit of a reach for me.

Evening Beach swim

Sunset Yoga

The people were all welcoming, positive - and came from different places with varied perspectives. I was a hot yoga addict who believed that yoga had to be challenging and strenuous to be worthwhile. Beth took the time to show me what my body was telling me. I learned to work towards alignment at all times, and let go of the "big" poses that I wanted to do until my body is ready. My hips are so much happier!

morning yoga

I have managed to keep the spirit of Bodhi alive - as conversations with Beth and her family encouraged me to start a morning journaling ritual. It has helped me to focus on what is important, and let go of what is not! See you in 2025!

- Judy


Reserve now ($500 deposit) for your February spot & book your flights! Balance isn’t due until fall.

Costa Rica Retreat 2025 Details here: bethgrahamwellness.com


RESERVE Costa Rica Retreat February 2025

Reserve your spot now! Put your deposit ($500) down for February 15-22, 2025.

The best time to book flights is July/August 2024 and retreat balance is billed in October.

Find all the details here: https://www.bethgrahamwellness.com/retreat

Memories of our 2024 retreat. We will always remember it as the Sunsets & Smiles Retreat (and the night Scott took over the band with the song original “Yoga Two Times” sung to The Doors “Love me two times”!)

Active Morning Yoga

A dip in the pool between classes

Downward dog to get the body moving

Setting up for bridge pose to strengthen the back

Sunset beach time and swim

Restorative Sunset Yoga

Exploring shops and surprises in town

I’ll toast to that…Cheers!